Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
13.06.2025 02:54

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.
Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
No country for ugly people…
Who was the actor least deserving of an Academy Award?
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.
That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.
If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?